Rishta toot jane ya breakup ka dard bohat gehra hota hai. Aise waqt mein bohat se log sochte hain ke kya wo shakhs wapas aa sakta hai? Internet par log is kamzori ka faida utha kar "24 ghantay mein ex wapas" jaise jhoote amliyat ka daawa karte hain. Is article mein Syed Ali Hussain Naqvi sachchai aur deeni roshni mein sahi rasta batate hain.
Pehle Ye 3 Sawal Khud Se Zaroor Karein
- Rishta Kyun Toota Tha? Kya bunyadi waja be-aitebari, bad-akhlaqi ya khandaani inkaar tha?
- Kya Wo Insaan Sach Mein Behtar Tha? Kya us ke sath zindagi guzarna aap ke deen, izzat aur mustaqbil ke liye faidamand tha?
- Haqeeqi Mohabbat Ya Akela-Pan: Kya aap sach mein usi shakhs ko chahte hain ya sirf achanak akelay ho jane ke khauf se bhaag rahe hain?
Istikhara Kaise Madad Karta Hai?
Istikhara kisi shakhs ko zabardasti kheench kar lane ka jadoo nahi hai. Istikhara aap ke dil ko mutmain karta hai ke Allah Ta'ala ke ilm ke mutabiq aap ke liye behtar kya hai: kya is rishte ko dobara jodnay ki sharai koshish karni chahiye ya sabr ke sath aagay barhna chahiye?
Zaroori Deeni Baatein
- Kisi ko uski marzi aur ikhtiyar ke khilaf zabardasti wapas lane ka koi amal Islam mein jaiz nahi hai.
- Agar wo insaan aap ki qismat mein na ho, to Allah Ta'ala sabr karne walon ko us se kahin behtar sharik-e-hayat ata farma sakta hai.
- Is dukh ke waqt apna zaati aur rohani khayal rakhein: namaz, dua aur nek doston aur khandaan ka sahara lein.
Agar Rishta Shadi Ka Tha
Agar rishta pehle se mangni ya shadi ke iraday se tha aur dono taraf se wapas aane ki khwahish ho, to chori chupe ke bajaye walidain ko beech mein daal kar ba-waqar tareeqay se baat karein.
Wazih Note: Hum "ex wapas lane" ki koi supernatural guarantee nahi dete. Hum sirf aur sirf shariat ke mutabiq istikhara, dil ke sukoon aur sahi faislay mein rehnumai dete hain.